My ex and I  have been on and off for over 3 years. When we first started dating things were great. After moving in together he started being distant sexually.  I would try to initiate sex and he would always blow me off, but the moment I left the house He would  masturbate to transgender porn. I became a detective and sick at this point. I then  found transgender Backpage searches and when I confronted him on it he told me that he only looked at them for the pictures and that it was just another form of porn. I stupidly believed him and stayed with him for over another year. I finally left due to his addictions to drugs, alcohol, and porn.. We have tried to work things out several times in the last few months. Just Last week I found that he had been perusing craigslist casual encounters. He sent an email to a male massage therapist telling him that he would love to give him oral and would like a prostate massage. Then I found the email correspondence with a transgender escort sending over his pictures and asking what she was interested in. He knew all of the lingo. This reality has been a very large pill for me to swallow. I confronted him through a letter being very supportive and loving and telling him that I was here if you wanted to talk about things. He turned everything around on me and got very defensive and told me I was making reality out of and email and that it just wasn’t the truth or reality. I asked in  the letter if he was gay or bi or he was doing this as some form of stress relief. Again he just beratted me and belittled me and made me feel like I made it up all in my head. I took pictures of all of the conversations. I have the proof. Did I do something wrong? I could really use some advice for my situation. I’m so glad I found this site and I’m thankful for all of your stories. At least I know I’m not alone