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Strategies for MOM's » Say he still loves me but needs to have sex with men but not gay ? » April 16, 2024 3:00 pm

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Thank you Elle for your support I too thought I had a wonderful marriage and he has pulled the rug right out under me didn’t see it coming.  I am currently reading A pebble in his shoe a diary of  straight wife which is helping me understand  and also finding out this happens a lot .

Strategies for MOM's » Say he still loves me but needs to have sex with men but not gay ? » April 16, 2024 6:33 am

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I just caught my husband using the app Grindr and has been for a few years apparently. Says he loves me and only wants me but said he needs to be fulfilled sexually which I can’t give him. He chose this avenue as he said having an affair with a woman would be too risky they also want more so chose going down the path of men. Says he is not gay and initially denied being bi but now says he probably is  bi Wants to stay married and play happy families as the fallout would be too great to bear. I love him but the betrayal the lies and deceit is eating away at me. Anyone else going through this ?

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