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Re: Sometimes, the gay spouse tries to understand
Steve wrote:
1.5 years! My god!! I went insane in 3 months.
Yeah..you don't know my ex. She is ..pigheaded..arrogant..stubborn..crazy. I realize now what a narcisst she is. It took her a long time to realize how a divorce works and that I would not solve her problems as I always used to.
She thought if she raged and acted mean enough that I would just go coward in a hole somewhere...she would remain a SATM with kids,her lover and her lover's kids living in our house that I would continue to pay for while living on the street.
That was how low her opinion was of me.
I come here because it still boggles my mind..I was such a good husband..
"For we walk by faith, not by sight .." 2Corinthians 5:7