Please read the and abide by these rules.  

-This forum is for those who have chosen to remain committed to their marriage after finding out there spouse has a same-sex-attraction. If this does not apply to you please refrain from posting here.

-Discussions should focus on strategies to help the straight spouse overcome the challenges of this new relationship dynamic. 

-Any advice given must be constructive toward the goal of a successful Mixed Orientation Marriage.

-While this section focuses on positive strategies, we do recommend that you also read and participate in the other sections.  You will get a larger spectrum of responses in the General Discussion and Support areas.  The shared wisdom of those who have tried and do not recommend MOM's may be helpful to you now or in the future.  While not always positive, that advice is given out of care and compassion.