My husband came out as gay after 23 years of marriage. He wants to stay married but open our relationship. I love him and I want to make it work but I am scared. One day I am ok with it next day I am not. How long will it take to make up my mind. This decision is difficult for me because I am still attracted to him and I desire him. I asked him if we can keep any type of intimacy between us. First he said sex once a month was ok , now he told me that it is not ok. We were watching some adult gay movies together which I am ok with but it stopped too. I am scared an confused what will happen next, will he just leave me for a guy? Should I stay in this relationship or just let go and start healing. Anyone out there with similar situation?