Ok, let me try this again. I came across this instagram page and have found some helpful advice. She is a counsellor for straight spouses in Australia.
https://www.instagram.com/notmyclosetanymore/
The quote I attempted to post was "Straight spouses have been decieved, rejected, emotionally abused, and abandoned. All all the while the closeted spouse walks away like he is owed something..."
I am currently feeling this as I approach mediation day. Like others, at the very beginning he made a lot of promises about how he cared, and would make sure I was taken care of, and how I didn't deserve this. Of course I found out they were all lies and empty promises pretty quickly.
This was one of the hardest parts for me. The hatred. The vile things he spewed at me. And the fact that he now blames me for everything. Somehow I am having to "pay" for something I didn't even know about.
Last edited by Anon2222 (April 20, 2024 5:37 pm)