Here's an excerpt from Helen Joyce's book "Trans."  The excerpt focuses on autogynephilia ("a man's love of himself as a woman").  Worth a read if your husband has declared that he is transgendered.

https://quillette.com/2021/09/07/the-truth-about-autogynephilia/

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