OurPath (formerly SSN) Open Forum / Where are we all from anyhow?

**Posted by Ellexoh_nz** February 24, 2021 7:21 pm

DeeDee1771 wrote:
....... I would love to be back in the city, but my dreams have never been that important to anyone.

You DeeDee....it's you....your dreams are important to you and nothing will change until you see yourself as worthy of your own life, your own dreams
I can't tell you how to stop focusing on your husband, but it is holding you back.

Elle

**Posted by YetiNeti** February 26, 2021 10:50 am

Born and raised midwest (OH/IN). When 2020 stripped everything, and he decided he was finally ready to face his past and his closet - I said, "that's fine. But I'm not doing it here." So We moved back to Northwest Arkansas. I didn't realize then how important that declaration of what I needed would help in my healing. We have full therapeutic disclosure in 26 days, and I'm fully expecting to file for divorce soon after. It's been 13 years of hiding in silence and shame, gaslighting, and religious organizations' expectations.

**Posted by Soaplife** March 26, 2021 2:55 am

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**Posted by Gloria** March 26, 2021 9:29 am

Bible belt is my home.

**Posted by lily** March 26, 2021 11:55 am

Hi Soaplife, I have been enjoying reading your posts, you have the same sort of perspective I have. I am on the Eastern tip of the continent - Byron Shire. we are as far away from each other as you can get! we're both a bit at the end of the earth but you are more so and isn't it a good place to be in a pandemic.

**Posted by Soaplife** March 27, 2021 1:42 am

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**Posted by oliviap** March 27, 2021 2:08 am

I am from South Africa and could be the only member from Africa. In everything I read and researched I only found one South African magazine which had published an article dealing with GID's. It obviously exists here as my STBX mentioned having sex with several married men. I also have knowledge that two of my cousins were married to GID's long ago and my sister in law's husband also came out to her about 18 months ago. She is my husband's sister and I cannot really discuss my situation with her because of the family bond between brother and sister. If there are any other South African members, I would love to communicate with them.

**Posted by lily** March 27, 2021 5:59 pm

Hi oliviap - there was an African woman here not too long ago, she might be back, OJECPOMCO, if I remember her name right.

Chris Hemsworth, the actor? I didn't know. does he come from here, or has he just moved in?

**Posted by MyExodus** April 26, 2021 5:20 pm

Orlando. I just found out that the parents of one of my daughter's schoolmates may be divorcing because he came out; but that may just be a school rumor. If there is anyone on here from Orlando, would love to meet.

**Posted by MyExodus** June 5, 2021 1:19 pm

I am in Orlando, have had my vaccinations, would be willing to wear a mask and social distance and DESPERATELY need a FTF SSN meeting! I feel like I am going mad!