Mom: I hadn't commented up to now because I hadn't heard the podcast.  I was able to stomach about the first ten minutes and had to turn it off.

What shocked me most of all was the SSN podcast host, who seemed to agree with him.  And notwithstanding their attempt to qualify everything with that long soliloquy about how the discover might theoretically have come about ... that's not the way it goes down in real life.  

Men who enter into a marriage for ANY reason based on a lie, cannot be viewed as innocent and naive victims.  That's true whether they're secretly gay or secretly drug addicted or secretly addicted to gambling.