I had a question. When I was with my GID H, I always got severe UTIs. The doc would put me on antibiotics, and they'd clear up. We didn't have sex terribly often, but I always got those bladder and kidney infection when we did. I've never had them in my life until the last couple years with him. Anyone else have them with their gay husbands? Could they in fact be sexually related? Could they also have been an STD? Thanks, and blessings and joy to all.