OurPath (formerly SSN) Open Forum / My wife is gay?

**Posted by Ces123** May 2, 2017 11:47 pm

First my english is not so good but this page is the one i looking for to find a good answer.. So She start like 2 months ago seeing vídeos on youtube about girls kissing and girls gays talking about herself, in that time she even kiss me or touch me 2 monts! I was furiuos for that of course and i saw what she was doing.. So i was patient and wait the perfect moment to be more close to she, we make sex later but she confest to me that she dont know what is happen to her, she told me that she see the woman diferent now! She like the way some woman are but still she love me... that is confuse to me and to her too and i dont know what can i do.. She need his space? Or i can help her?

**Posted by Daryl** May 3, 2017 7:18 pm

If I understand you - it sounds like she is questioning her sexuality. Maybe she has for a long time? What will happen in future is difficult to predict and not something you can likely control. I would suggest communication. Counseling as a couple would be a very good idea.

**Posted by Still Wondering** May 5, 2017 9:21 pm

Hi Ces123 - I'm sorry you're here. If she's watching videos of lesbian porn and also telling you that she sees women differently now, I think there's a very good chance that she's gay. If she's admitting to it, at least there is open communication instead of lying about it and that's a good thing. Read through all the pots on this site and see if the way she acts is similar to other spouses we discuss. That will give you a good idea of how to proceed.