The quote Kristin read was like a man telling us what we already know! but as we all know....we don't really know this 
until the mindfuck has totally fucked our mind so the need to say it felt a little condescending. We don't need convincing, and because of the traumatic timeline of this type of situation we won't believe we need convincing til it finally dawns on us we have been duped. 

A couple of years ago I read some of Joe Kort's articles and realise to some straightspouses he'll be the answer to their prayers, but my intuition told me to keep looking, this was another man jumping on the LGBTQ bandwagon. This man is gay?

First and foremost...this whole thing is NOT about sexuality Mr Kort....this is about the HONESTY between two people 

Last edited by Ellexoh_nz (March 15, 2020 1:59 pm)

it is weird isn't it.  Straight people might be ignorant of how different it is for gay people but they don't assume they know better than a gay person what it is like to be gay.  But the bisexuals think they know better than everybody, it's mind boggling.

I had a young bisexual friend tell me in all sincerity that gay men were better at having sex with straight men than women were because they knew how the equipment worked.  It was like we women were poor seconds!  Oh goodness.  They just cannot wrap their heads around the difference of being attracted to the opposite sex.

someone else I know started with I'm straight then she says of course, like all women I get my emotional needs met by other women.  now it's well Ive always been binary gender.