I heard there is an SSN Facebook page that is focused on positivity and healing. I am on the Str8sbook page and since the major rift, I find myself lost there. I am also looking for others whom are living with their gay spouse for financial reasons and want to be with the kids. We live in the same house but I have my own space in the basement. I was a stay at home Mom for 16 years so I am still not able to be out on my own. We are making it work, for now. Would just be nice to talk to others that are in the same position, I can’t be the only one. Thanks for your help.