HeldHostageInHerCloset wrote:

Supernova wrote:

HeldHostageInHerCloset wrote:

As far as filing, She doesn't seem to know how much I know yet. Do I just file and have her served, or do I sit down with her first knowing that regardless of what she says, I've got to carry through? 
 

 I would not air any grievances, that will do nothing except make her mad and defensive. You want to give her a golden bridge to walk her butt out of your life.

Super, I think that's ultimately the tightrope I have to walk. I'll see what the lawyer says next week. I believe right now, I've got enough to avoid alimony and likely get majority custody, So those grievances may have to come out regardless. Though a shorter cheaper process would be nice, it may be worth the fight. But... that may just be inexperience talking. 

I'm praying for you and your family.