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**Posted by HeldHostageInHerCloset** November 8, 2025 1:20 am

She took the iron. I've never seen her once iron something, she usually wears gym pants.

**Posted by Rob** November 8, 2025 11:22 am

Having finally moved from the family home I was left with decades of stuff. I got rid of most of it but I still have one box with the wedding pics. I figure that proves that it happened. My GX fled in hatred and really wanted to erase me and all the stuff.

**Posted by Supernova** November 8, 2025 1:44 pm

HeldHostageInHerCloset wrote:
She took the iron. I've never seen her once iron something, she usually wears gym pants.

My LEX was taking the 6Q kitchenaid mixer I had bought her before we got married and I asked her if she was taking it to remember me by abd she ended up leaving it. 😂

**Posted by HeldHostageInHerCloset** November 9, 2025 12:05 am

Our big TV died a few months ago, I just kinda shrugged and thought... well, that's one less thing to split, but she took 2 others. The bigger being a 13 year old 42". Great! Upgrade time.

Got all new bedding, finally cleaned a lot of her debris from around the bed (found 7 forks just stuffed under stuff) and slept square in the middle of the king size for the first time and it was pretty nice, I'd gotten used to sleeping on the edge for so long, maybe 18 to 24 inches worth of the bed max. Until the alarm went off and I had to army crawl back to the side to turn it off. Then I was gone all day and she had our son. When I got back she was sitting on my bed with our middle. If I find crumbs in it, I'm gonna be pretty pissed. I really need to get around to rekeying to the locks.

**Posted by Ellexoh_nz** November 9, 2025 1:40 pm

Supernova wrote:
HeldHostageInHerCloset wrote:
She took the iron. I've never seen her once iron something, she usually wears gym pants.
My LEX was taking the 6Q kitchenaid mixer I had bought her before we got married and I asked her if she was taking it to remember me by abd she ended up leaving it. 😂

LOL

**Posted by Rob** November 10, 2025 9:42 am

"..really need to get around to rekeying to the locks."

While I never changed the locker just the thought of my GX in the home horrified me..She never came back in. But I did set the alarm every night out of fear. Ive moved now and feel much safer.

The thought of them feeling entitled to walk into the family home when they dont live there seems wrong to me. Like they wanted the home and the kids but not us...

**Posted by HeldHostageInHerCloset** November 11, 2025 12:19 am

Rob wrote:
"..really need to get around to rekeying to the locks."

While I never changed the locker just the thought of my GX in the home horrified me..She never came back in. But I did set the alarm every night out of fear. Ive moved now and feel much safer.

The thought of them feeling entitled to walk into the family home when they dont live there seems wrong to me. Like they wanted the home and the kids but not us...

That's how I feel right now. I get that she's supposed to be picking stuff up and taking it, but she's not putting any effort into actually taking a load at a time, just a few odds and ends here and there if at all, just shows up for a bit and leaves. Letting herself in without knocking or anything.

Tonight was the first night she had the kids, but I've got to go pick them up super early in the morning while she works. That's gonna be the theme when she has them. Even tomorrow night (her night) I'll have one with me while she takes the other to a martial arts class. I've been chatting with this girl from the gym, but I have no idea yet when I'd even have a chance to take her for coffee or something.

**Posted by Supernova** November 11, 2025 1:51 pm

It is the perfect time to set your boundaries on entry. For example you can request she returns all her keys. Even if you plan to change the locks the next day, this sets a clear boundary that she no longer lives there. She hasn't provided you a key to her place. It sounds like your children are old enough to have their own key if they need to run in to get something they forgot. My LEX comes to my front door and knocks and doesnt come into my home unless I say so. If my young kids need something while im gone she texts and opens the garage and the kids run in without her. I have a garage door opener for her house for the same reason.

**Posted by HeldHostageInHerCloset** November 11, 2025 2:43 pm

They definitely should follow the same rules as vampires.

This morning, had to pick up the kids from her place around 6am, she had already left for work, but my daughter's phone was on do not disturb, so had to go to the door, luckily I could see her thru the window and get her attention. I don't really want access to her place, but with 2 minors and her work schedule I may need to.