thanks Sean, that was very funny.  and true.  Tho I do think it's a bit different for Alex than for wives who have no choice in identifying as straight.

Sam that was too funny, I am the same.  I realised the other day I can't keep imagining I am still slender or I'll never believe I need to lose any weight.  

I've heard the human genome described by a geneticist as like a bag of marbles, a few big ones compared to the number of little ones.  And I've heard them talk about DNA that is in you but not expressed - switched off, and that they can switch on in later life.  so there's my binary code.  a gene is switched on or off.  Just like those computers we built.

You are right tho, I have no real basis, just an instinctive take on things where I believe that same sex orientation is at the heart of things like bisexuality - like a big switch when so much of the surrounding sea of supporting switches are going the other way.  

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