Blue Bear wrote:
Be careful at counseling. My ex-wife and I tried couple's counseling, which became her opportunity to try to justify her bad behavior through pointing out her trivial complaints about me. If I were to do this again (God forbid), I would not attend couple's counseling. I already knew what I needed to know about my ex-wife. She is adulterous, attracted to women and capable of profound, mindfucking deception. I didn't really need a counselor to tell me why I needed to leave.
when I caught my husband hooking up with a man off craigslist, he acquiesced to couple's counseling.
1) the counselor said the issue could be resolved with the forgiveness of cheating - like his sexual preference and the deceit in marrying me was irrelevant.
2) the counselor then said we should just do one on one counseling and he never went on his own.
