Thanks for sharing.... this is something I have been pondering also...
I GET that my wife did not choose how she now feels about her sexuality. I understand that suddenly the world make sense to her. BUT she DID choose how to approach it, she did choose to look for other woman online and for that she should take some responsibility.
I feel like every other day my position switches 180 degrees and probably will for the next few months...
Hang in there!