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Re: Husband in Denial
I haven't posted since June, just wanted to update that my GIDH is finally starting counselling. He has gone to two sessions, myself- one, both separately. He is sharing "the good life" picture with the counsellor- no mention of his drinking, first marriage (10 yrs) sex problems; etc. He says he is really happy in his life, and that he loves me sooo much- and wonders why I am not. He says not being able to perform (low testosterone levels) is a medical issue- and why would I consider leaving him. He forgets the 20+ years when his testosterone levels were functional levels and he still wasn't... I need to read the forum to remain my sanity sometimes... thanks all for your posts!