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After 32 years....
A little under a year ago my partner of 32 years admitted a desire for (more) experimentation of his bisexual side, along with the admission to wearing my underthings, a secret account...etcetera.!
I was confronted by a man I didn't want..who wanted other things which did NOT include me.
I am resolute that I will NEVER
+be okay+ with this. I demanded monogamy...nothing less. Our life is normal apart than this
*earth tilt*.
I think I have almost forgiven him for the dishonest way he went about this...my trust however will take him years to rekindle.
I won't live my life waiting for more lies...so with all my strength..I have to believe he means it when he promised me integrity & monogamy.
This site had become so painful that I was dreading logging on. But each day, week, month..I seem to learn more about myself and SSN is part of that 
Can I UNlove the man I expected to spend the rest of my life with?
Not yet.
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Last edited by Ellexoh (December 14, 2017 4:56 pm)
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