I thought I was about done for the year but I came across this online and thought it was important to share.... I wish I could give credit to the writer but I do not know who it is..... (warning - it pulls no punches)

"To the victims of sociopoath, psychopath, or narcissistic abuse.If I can give one word of advice to you who are just coming to these pages, and the realization you've been future faked, mind raped, stalked, and had your psyche toyed with like a cat does a ball of yarn, it would be this; BURY THE HOPE!
This idea you have in your mind that somehow it's all going to work out, because you know you've done everything anyone could to show this demon in human skin, how deeply and genuinely you love them, that certainly in a few days, weeks, or months, they too will realize how special you really are, and how horribly they've treated you. THEY ALREADY KNOW.. It is because of your being genuine, and loving, kind, generous, and possessing something they know they can NEVER have, it varies from one situation to the next.
They set out to destroy you because you are GOOD, because you are GENUINE, because you are EMPATHETIC. Empaths are the #1 foe of the narcs, and psycho/sociopaths, From day 1, they've had NOTHING BUT CONTEMPT and SEETHING HATRED for you, the same they HAVE FOR THEMSELVES. You were used to mirror your AWESOME QUALITIES, to make them acceptable to themselves, and they systematically DRAINED YOU of YOU. They will NOT EVER be anything different than they are, SO BURY THE FREAKING HOPE, so you can meet someone worthy of you, someone who is also HUMAN, and not just a demon in human skin.
BURY THE HOPE, and when they come hoovering, the best thing you can do, is make them think you are going to expose them, or just expose them, even slightly, AND THEY'RE GONE, no more hoovering. They will however try to discredit you to anyone willing to listen, until either they die, or the earth is no more. But who cares what a 4 year old has to say anyway, and anyone dumb enough or gullible enough to believe them, even if they claim to be a friend of yours, well as the adage goes; With friends like that, who needs enemies. People, listen to me as one who didn't listen to others, and save yourself unnecessary heartache and foolish pining, see the beast as the beast they truly are, and bury the hope."

Last edited by Daryl (December 17, 2016 4:23 pm)