I made my husband at uni.  We moved from UK to Aus.  It took from me being 19 to 31 for him to ask me to marry him.
Had average twice a week sex life but he like latex, me to wear latex which i hated and also a strap on as he liked anal penetration - again I did not even doing this for him really and it turned me off as I am vanilla.
2 kids later..  I got post natal depression so he looked elsewhere lots of porn and getting himself off. Few pics of people sending images of private parts, webcam stuff.   
Then came transgender online affair with Asian person.  Told her he loved her.. never me...
Found out said he was sorry.. haha not really.  No kisses, no hugs, no sex NOTHING in 14 years.  Downloaded Grindr app but says he doesn't know why... can't remember but found on app purchases.  Has started removing body hair, fake tanning, boxes of viagra, lube in little bottles, latex clothes, 3 tubes on Anusol... honestly what an absolute idiot.  I have found images of women and so perhaps Bi but definitely a liar.  Last weekend went for a bike ride and his location disappeared.  ask him and he said 'oh what has stopped working'. his location was 'stuck' at home in an areas which has sex clubs .. asian only ladies brothe and gay club ... oh and he bought a penis sheath/extender said it was to wear under bike shorts as he likes exhibitionism ... denies any part of being gay said it repulses him .. nah don't think so.