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- betrayedandlost
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Re: Social Science Research on Infidelity and Divorce Rates Bisexuals
I'm very new to all this. I found out 3 months ago that my husband of 32 years was having affairs. He came out as bisexual. He had been sleeping with multiple men-- paying them for sex or sexual acts- for a few years. He claims to feel terrible, and says that even though he is bisexual he is committed to being in our relationship. He is genuinely remorseful. I would like to try to make this work but I am terrified that he will decide he doesn't want me again, and will seek out others once more. Has anyone been a similar situation? Has anyone been able to work past it? I'm overwhelmed and traumatized but I still hope we can work through it. Is this delusional?
- Ellexoh_nz
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Re: Social Science Research on Infidelity and Divorce Rates Bisexuals
betrayedandlost wrote:
...... but I still hope we can work through it. Is this delusional?
Nope it's not delusional. In 2017 I believed I could rebuild my 32y r'ship into something that resembled the happier times of the past. My former bisexual partner was okay with the status quo...which was never really letting me know his inner emotions, never admitting to anything. So he was going to be okay.
It was me who had to work through my trust issues and decide if I had had enough of living his life.
Elle
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