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1 of 1- M-Kate
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thong underware?
I've known that my husband is bisexual for about 8 months. It's been an emotional roller coaster. Lately, he's been coming to bed wearing thong underwear. Usually black and then recently a white mesh. I think that they make him feel sexy. I'm glad that I haven't laughed. He's 69 years old. I wonder where this came from. Do gay porn stars wear thong underwear?
- Abby
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Where is your husband wearing this new underwear before coming to bed? To a gym or other place where he wants to be noticed by other men?
Not sure what "gay porn stars" wear but my "bi" who went "bye" husband went that route.
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- Ellexoh_nz
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M-Kate wrote:
..... Do gay porn stars wear thong underwear?
LOL .. not something I waste time thinking about Mkate but do you really care? As for managing not to laugh...why don't you look at it as him doing something that makes you uncomfortable and act accordingly.... Like say to him "this makes me uncomfortable so I'm going to sleep elsewhere" The spare room, the couch... because him wearing a thong to bed is obviously a selfish act. Maybe he doesn't care about your comfort.
You can laugh at somebody genuinely if you're prepared to tell them why you're laughing. That would be the point where you start honest conversation about how you're feeling
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As a straight guy its not a masculine thing to wear. sounds uncomfortable. Thatot its triggering to you and he most likely knows it does not scream devotion but quite the opposite.
"For we walk by faith, not by sight .." 2Corinthians 5:7