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    September 8, 2023 11:23 pm  #11

    MarieSmith
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    Re: How to Healthily Move On

    How does one not become a bitter shrew?

    I love your question for a couple reasons.  One - you are clear that you don't want to be a bitter shrew and two - you're trying to figure it out.  I'm not completely clear of the "how" for myself but I too know that's not where I want to end up.  Keep us posted!

     

    September 9, 2023 12:26 pm  #12

    True
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    Re: How to Healthily Move On

    Anon2222
    Thank you for sharing your heartfelt feelings & this topic. So important.  
    Firstly let me say as you already know “ Where all standing in your shoes at various stages of all the endless Mindfu*k  games of betrayal’  repeated assaults of psychological abuse’ which leaves us with lingering trauma that cuts to the very depths of our souls, from these Psychopathic, Heartless, Cowardly, Homosexual B*tches! That’s an understatement describing these Monsters!.  As you can tell I’m bitter as hell too’ I totally understand your pain, It wasn’t & isn’t fair!.

    I believe we can move forward & put the Pain, Bitterness & Trauma behind us if we continue engaging in support groups like this one, reach out to our trusted loyal friends we can confine in & most importantly realizing our “Life Transformation” is a process which we "Hold The Power To Choose, Who We Become & Who Is Worthy Of Our Love & Loyalty, Moving Forward”.  

    ” BELIEVE “  Life Will Become Beautiful Again, Cause It Will, Hugs 💞. 




     

    Last edited by True (September 9, 2023 12:48 pm)

    "And you will know the truth, & the truth will set you free"
    John 8:32
    True ❤️.
     

     

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