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- Helpme25
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Re: WHAT DO I DO
Ellexoh_nz wrote:
I’m just at really trying to make it until after Christmas to confront him but it’s so challenging
Ah yep.....challenge. It will be tough but you can do this, you just have to be stronger than the emotions you're
feeling about this, about him. Easy to say, harder to do I know. See "after christmas" as a goal and work towards it
Elle
Thank you for your encouragement ❤️
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Re: WHAT DO I DO
After the holidays is a great goal. I hate to sound like a broken record, but it'll give you confidence to confront if you know your rights about custody, finances where you live now.
Your h may try to scare you with lies about divorce laws. My late GIDXH sounded convincing many times, but he was being dishonest. Those in the closet are masters at manipulating facts to continue cheating with men. 🙁
Am thinking good thoughts for you and your child & baby to come. You are a brave person.
Yes he will try to manipulate and scare me atleast that’s what I feel
Thank you so much (hugs)
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