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    November 1, 2021 3:38 pm  #41

    SusanneH
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    Re: Snooping for Curious Spouses

    After all this,…and, I really hate to say it, because if it had been this way when I searched when my husband was cheating…if it was this way, I never would have found all the stuff I found on his computer. Even though it was AT&T and a contact in his phone that I matched to their records that did the ‘trick, I never would have even thought to look there if I hadn’t found all that stuff on the computer. I learned how to find deleted searches and more…

    NOW YOU CAN’T DO THAT on Chrome and probably others. I haven’t looked.

    They have “Incognito” mode now, where you can search and leave absolutely NO history…….NONE. So, deleted history doesn’t matter since there is none. It’s on iPads and computers. The industry has made it easy to cheat.

    phtttttt!

    Last edited by SusanneH (November 1, 2021 3:39 pm)

     

    November 2, 2021 1:39 pm  #42

    Ellexoh_nz
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    Re: Snooping for Curious Spouses

    MJM017 wrote:

     

     

    It was so exhausting.....this snooping, when I thought I had to do it.! 
    and such a relief when it didn't matter anymore

    I just wish I could live my life over. Wish I'd known/been strong enough, when
    the Mindfuck showed itself as the life-changing thing it was, to draw a line in 
    the sand and step over it and away. No snooping, no argument, no compromise

    Damn it....*I* will never be who I was.

     


     

    KIA KAHA                       
     

     

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