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What Am I going To Do !?!
Hey everyone, so I am new here and would like some advice!!
So, the craziest thing happened to me yesterday and it kind of put into perspective the issue of me questioning if my husband’s gay!
I won’t go into full detail about it but basically it was some random women, as we we’re doing our daily walk just out of nowhere cursed me out for walking past her car and then called me everyname in the book. Long story short after she tried running me over and my husband defending me then she proceeds to call him gay and how she will put her husband penis in his mouth. Random I know!
That was part of it, but ever since we moved into our new home which had been about 3 weeks now, I for one noticed when we we’re close to our house and got lost there we’re two males walking and one was dressed like a female sort of, and he couldn’t stop staring. Another thing is when we went to the thrift store which is in our new area their we’re two gay dudes that gave him a look. I for one know good and well what that look meant, and it was that gay look they gave him.
This has all been recent since we haven’t been having sex and he cannot get himself up. Honestly I always initiate the sex and he stays in the bathroom an hour to two each day. I noticed you all mentioned that also! About a month ago, I seen him looking at another guys private because honestly this guy keeps being all in his face but that doesn’t deny the fact he looked.
Honestly this has had me feeling so low down, lonely and I noticed I gained lots of weight plus myself has plummeted dramatically. This makes me feel so ugly. He never even tells me I am pretty or anything of that sort like randomly touching me or anything.
I know I am not ready to leave right now. I am probably just looking to vent or looking for confirmation. If anything I thinks he’s more bi then gay but who knows! I don’t feel like he has ever been with a man because he’s so squeamish. He doesn’t even really want to do oral on me and I can feel it’s forced and every time we kiss it is the absolutely worst with all that nasty tongue. He has let me eat his ass once when we we’re drunk on a cruise for about an hour then finger him a bit.
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Re: What Am I going To Do !?!
sexyindulgence21 wrote:
Hey everyone, so I am new here and would like some advice!!
Hey 21. Welcome to our Forum. You sound young, and going by the name you've chosen...social media-driven. While much of what happens with a straightspouse is sexual...you're the only one to call herself a name that, to me anyway belongs on a dating and sexual meets site. I hope you'll think about changing it.
The answer to all the things that make you feel down & lonely and not worth it actually lie with you. And I think you need to see a doctor or a counselor, and talk this out but not with your husband.
Have a look at the First Aid Kit. It's pinned (always there), the first few threads on the General Discussion Board.
Elle
Edited to say.....we're here to support you 21 
Last edited by Ellexoh_nz (December 27, 2020 12:09 pm)
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