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- Sonata
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Re: painful truth
Longway home....
Thank you for your words. I really appreciate them. I think you are probably very right....just disentangling is hard and takes time especially during Coronavirus and having our 13 year old son. Not sure how to go about it all. I also financially support the whole family. As our son is autistic, my husband has stayed home to care for him. I am not sure how I can support two separate households? I am sure it will become clear how and what I need to do.....
- Ellexoh_nz
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Re: painful truth
Sonata wrote:
After talking today, its seems my husband and I are at a deadlock. He wishes that I could accept his bisexuality and occasional dalliance. ...... I wonder, is it really that black and white? Feels that way right now.....
Yes it is black and white. You either let him know you're okay with him sleeping with men you know nothing about, and possibly give you an STI (not saying he would, not saying he wouldn't, just that he could)
...or you say "no I'll never be comfortable knowing you're having sex with a man
See black and white.
Elle
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