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    October 10, 2020 11:15 pm  #1

    blindone
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    How do I know?

    I discovered my ex was having affairs w/men when I saw his text messages to/from men. From what I saw he was also on an app as well.  I've confronted him, but have not told him HOW I know.  Not until I said one of the names of them men (the only name I know from all of text messages), did he confess. But says that was the only man.  Not once has he asked me how I know.  I press on that I know there are more and he still denies.  Why would he not ask me exactly how I know?  

     

    October 11, 2020 3:53 am  #2

    Ellexoh_nz
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    Re: How do I know?

    blindone wrote:

    .................. Why would he not ask me exactly how I know?  

    Because admitting it would make it true? and put the onus on him to take responsibility for your hurt....
    Because he's another entitled man who thinks he can live his life the way he wants?

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