Perhaps this is why therapists don't understand the straight spouse
There's a somewhat recent blog post at the London School of Economics stating that gay job stereotypes may be true.
https://blogs.lse.ac.uk/businessreview/2016/01/18/there-may-be-some-truth-to-the-gay-jobs-stereotype/
The occupation with the highest proportion of gay and lesbian workers is psychologist.
No - It's not too late. It's not hopeless. Even there, there's something I can do. I just have to find the will. Ikiru (1952), film directed by Akira Kurosawa