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August 12, 2019 7:53 pm  #11

Re: My stupid plan

Trance, You are doing what you believe is best for you in this situation. That’s what we all want though the ways to get there are different for each.

I support you. Thinking good thoughts and hoping all works out for you.


August 13, 2019 1:07 pm  #12

Re: My stupid plan

Trance, just in case you don't know this is called a mixed orientation marriage.  You can find some support groups online I can recommend yahoo groups has MMOMW.  Good luck to you


August 13, 2019 8:01 pm  #13

Re: My stupid plan

Trance90 wrote:

..... I was afraid to post this because I am sure you guys who gave wonderful advice will say I’m nuts but I had to share.

We're all nuts at some point. The forum is here for you. Go well, it's your path after all

"If the mountain seems too big today
then climb a hill instead....."

August 14, 2019 6:20 am  #14

Re: My stupid plan

Trance, i'm really happy you both decided not to break. I'm proud of you and your decision to let her do what she has to do - find herself - without forcing her to choose. We are all different and your spouse's situation may differ from all others stories.
If it's good for both of you, then everybody is happy.
Good luck, i hope both of you will find your's own happiness.

Last edited by morpheus (August 14, 2019 9:57 am)


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