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- lily
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Re: How did this happen?
yeah, I'm sorry Trance, to be initiating sex with you and at the same time to be telling her girlfriend how bored she is etc etc is a bit disturbing isn't it.
Mine initiated in the early days but in mid life it stopped. This is a common scenario - I think it's because of that instinctive wish to have children. I was very relieved when it stopped, emotionally it had got to a point it was hurting me, I cried the last time and that became his excuse to stop altogether - it wasn't loving sex it was a performance for him and he had become tired of it.
There's been a few people who have been here and described partners who initiate sex a lot past mid life - but again, where's the affection - it's with both sexes and disregard for all.
with so little sleep you are in serious need of it and will need to make getting a night's sleep a priority. Can I suggest a visit to the doctor, it might help a lot.
all the best, Lily