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- whatasham24
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Re: I am so nauseated, cold and angry
Fantastic news Daisy!!! This is just what you & your son needs! Smart move on the mortgage helper property choice too! I'm in the process of doing the same & it's a key helper to freedom. Good on you 
And yes, they suddenly get depressed when they realize you actually ARE going to follow thru with sticking to your rules, demands & boundaries. Ignore it. Don't let him piss on your well deserved slice of self respect & peace.
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Re: I am so nauseated, cold and angry
and "what gives?" you ask? He's shocked & bewildered his gaslighting & manipulations are no longer working.
Run with it. Run with it like your hair's on fire & don't stop to look back until the last box is unpacked.
- WendiT
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Re: I am so nauseated, cold and angry
Go Daisy go!
"No matter how hard the journey may be, remember to be kind to yourself..."
- Daisyduke
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I am moving in 29 days. My offer was accepted for the house I found. My fiancé looks pained by the news and I sad for us and a little euphoric myself.because of the happy news against this very sad turn of events. He made a dinner to celebrate with champagne and we discussed gay relationships and feelings, which I have not had.
The home I'm moving to is gorgeous and that's about my focus along with my practice. I can't believe how quickly this is all moving along. My next step is std testing.....uggg. He insists he's never cheated on me, my gut says he's trying to spare me the pain and lying to me.
Girlfriends, family and colleagues are emerging as I share to readers digest condensed version, for which I'm very grateful. God is good and I'm going to keep walking in faith and do the footwork.
I sure appreciate all the input on this sets of posts. I'm going to start a new one shortly. Have a good Saturday.
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Thread Starter- Daryl
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Re: I am so nauseated, cold and angry
This is fantastic news for you - full speed ahead!!
“The future is unwritten.”
― Joe Strummer
- Kel
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Re: I am so nauseated, cold and angry
Great job, Daisy!
So I'm trying to understand - is HIS mother planning to move into the basement of your new home?
Kel
You are not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.
- Abby
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Re: I am so nauseated, cold and angry
I think the house has what is called a mother-in-law apartment, not that anyone's mother is going to occupy it. They are a way of getting income to help with the mortgage and having someone nearby. My son rented one right out of college.
- Daisyduke
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Kel, Abby is tight. It's a means to pay the mortgage. It's an investment house, essentially.
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Thread Starter- Kel
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Re: I am so nauseated, cold and angry
I knew you meant to rent it out in order to help pay the mortgage. I was just wondering if you actually meant to his mom, or someone else.
Kel
You are not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.