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- Debra614
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Re: Breaking News: My wife is a lesbian - Now I have questions
Z, this is impossible news to get, isn’t ? I’m sorry and want you to know that you’re likely to go through many emotions over the next weeks. My best advice is to get a good attorney and work towards a divorce. Your wife didn’t come out to herself six months ago, she’s always known she’s a lesbian, she just couldn’t figure out how to face the changes that come with a disclosure. I waited too long, and am afraid it’s too late for me. I am going to face that fear and am moving towards divorce. I WIIL NOT be married by this point next year. This forum helps a lot.