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Re: Help not reaching for the phone....
I too find myself wanting to reach for the phone and contact my Ex. We never had a discussion about my findings. I just caught him in a lie and i broke it off via text. After research I realize he is a classic Narcissist. I find myself almost obsessive about following him on social media. He never responded to my break up text but is constantly watching me on Social media. Its almost like a weird dance- it feels like he's hovering around me and I want to reach out and have a discussion and explain how much he hurt me.
But is this just me wanting some connection bc I am still too wrapped up psychologically in this web?
IDK?!