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    April 8, 2022 10:12 pm  #51

    Ellen
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    Re: Let’s create a playlist! What ear worms live in our SSpouse psyche?

    Give Me Back My Wig- Stevie Ray Vaughn, excellent cover by Hound Dog Taylor
    Got My Name Changed Back - Pistol Annies
    I Hate Myself For Loving You - Joan Jett and the Blackhearts

     

    April 16, 2022 8:46 pm  #52

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    Re: Let’s create a playlist! What ear worms live in our SSpouse psyche?

    "I Knew" Bonnie Raitt   I played this one a lot right after I left my now-ex.

     

    April 18, 2022 7:09 am  #53

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    Re: Let’s create a playlist! What ear worms live in our SSpouse psyche?

    "Let Him Fly", Patty Griffin.

     

    April 19, 2022 10:52 pm  #54

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    Re: Let’s create a playlist! What ear worms live in our SSpouse psyche?

    I can’t believe I haven’t seen this post yet! I actually made my own support/strength/I will survive playlist last September on Spotify. I call it Dirty Laundry (which has a sad significance). If anyone wants a link send me a private message.

    It’s not geared toward the straight spouse, but really any partner who has been screwed over.

    A great one is an 80s hit by The Thompson Twins called Lies.

    “You told me you love me, so I don’t understand. Why promises are snapped in two - words are made to bend…”

     

    April 19, 2022 11:09 pm  #55

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    Re: Let’s create a playlist! What ear worms live in our SSpouse psyche?

    Some of the songs from My personal ‘Dirty Laundry’ playlist (remember the title - I think you’ll see it again some day)

    Sail On - Lionel Richie
    I will survive - Gloria Gaynor
    Good as Hell - Lizzo
    Soul Mate - Lizzo
    Lies - Thompson Twins
    Believe - Cher
    Your Cheatin Heart - Hank Williams
    Love TKO - Boz Scaggs
    Time Heals - Todd Rungdren
    I’m a Mess - Bebe Rexa


    More to come when I am not falling asleep..zzzzz
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    

     

    July 27, 2023 7:40 am  #56

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    Re: Let’s create a playlist! What ear worms live in our SSpouse psyche?

    Sorry guys but this came to mind today... summarizing my 2.5 year exit from TGT.     RIP SInead..
    Last Day of our Acquaintance - Sinead O'Conner 

    This is the last day of our acquaintance
    I will meet you later in somebody's office
    I'll talk, but you won't listen to me
    I know what your answer will be

    Iknow you don't love me anymore
    You used to hold my hand when the plane took off
    Two years ago there just seemed so much more
    And I don't know what happened to our love

    Today's the day our friendship has been stale
    And we will meet later to finalize the details
    Two years ago the seed was planted
    And since then you have taken me for granted

    But this is the last day of our acquaintance
    I will meet you later in somebody's office
    I'll talk, but you won't listen to me
    I know your answer already

    But this is the last day of our acquaintance (oh-oh-oh)
    I will meet you later in somebody's office (oh-oh-oh)
    I'll talk, but you won't listen to me (oh-oh-oh)
    I know your answer already (oh-oh-oh)I know your answer already (oh-oh-oh)
    I know your answer already

    Last edited by Rob (July 27, 2023 7:42 am)

    "For we walk by faith, not by sight .."  2Corinthians 5:7
     

    August 5, 2023 12:43 am  #57

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    Re: Let’s create a playlist! What ear worms live in our SSpouse psyche?

    Well, I have a funny story for anyone who cares, when my ex disclosed to me in December last year I went and stayed at a friends house for a few days. I took his car as he needed my car (the family car with kids car seats in it), and being a Tesla, it has its own Spotify account set up in it…. It’s possible that I added a few songs to his ‘favourites’

    Fuck You by Ceelo Green
    Fuck You by Lily Allen
    ABCDEFU by Gayle

    And I also love Flowers by Miley Cyrus (although got overplayed 🙃), and I am Woman by Emmy Meli

    These songs are all in my ‘Fuck You’ playlist… one day I’ll have a less angry playlist, but for now, it’s angry 😂

    Just been listening to Mine by Kelly Clarkson which gets me in the feels too 😭

    mine/Lyrics

    You know I question every motive, everything you say
    Thought with you, maybe my heart wasn't meant to break
    Can't believe I let you in, I can't believe I stayed
    As long as I stayed, yeah
    I hope one day someone will take your heart and hold it tight
    Make you feel like you're invincible deep inside
    And right when you think that it's perfect, they cross a line
    And steal your shine
    Like you did mine
    Go ahead and break my heart, that's fine
    So unkind
    Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind
    Oh, love is blind
    Why am I missin' you tonight?
    Was it all a lie?
    Someone's gonna show you how a heart can be used
    Like you did mine
    And now, I second-guess my thoughts, every step I take
    I'm losin' hope in love, and I've lost all in faith
    Yeah, for a dreamer, I just close my eyes and it's all blank
    I have you to thank, yeah
    I hope one day someone will take your heart and hold it tight
    Make you feel like you're invincible deep inside
    And right when you think that you'll try again, they cross a line
    And steal your shine
    Like you did mine
    Go ahead and break my heart, that's fine
    So unkind
    Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind
    Oh, love is blind
    Why am I missin' you tonight?
    Was it all a lie?
    Someone's gonna show you how a heart can be used
    And you keep talkin', it'll come back, karma
    Is the truth, I don't make you look bad, you do, darlin'
    Sabotage, your choice of art
    Who the hell do you think you are?
    Go ahead and break my heart, that's fine
    Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind
    Why am I missin' you tonight?
    Someone's gonna show you how a heart can be used
    Like you did mine

     

    August 5, 2023 2:10 am  #58

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    Re: Let’s create a playlist! What ear worms live in our SSpouse psyche?

    straightwifeinNZ wrote:

    ......These songs are all in my ‘Fuck You’ playlist… one day I’ll have a less angry playlist, but for now, it’s angry 😂...

    Brilliant SWinNZ LOL

    I've gone past the need to listen to angry songs...it did my insides no good!
    But if I ever listen to a "fuck you" song....A always comes to mind

    Elle
     

    KIA KAHA                       
     

    August 6, 2023 9:35 am  #59

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    Re: Let’s create a playlist! What ear worms live in our SSpouse psyche?

    Some of my recent playlists include U2, Coldplay, Tina Turner and Taylor Swift

     

    August 7, 2023 12:36 pm  #60

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    Re: Let’s create a playlist! What ear worms live in our SSpouse psyche?

    My theme songs are in the vein of
    “Go fuck off; I’m gonna be just fine without you”

    Don’t Start Now by Dua Lipa
    Don’t Call Me Up by Mabel
    Bam Bam by Camila Cabello & Ed Sheeran
    Out of the Old by Olivia Rodrigo
    Do It Better by Felix Jaehn
    Edge of Midnight/midnight sky by Miley Cyrus and Stevie Nicks
    SNAP by Rosa Lynn
    Wasted on You by Morgan Wallen
    How Far I’ll go from Moana soundtrack
    Let Me Go by Hailee Steinfield, Alesia, & Florida Georgia line
    You should Be Sad by Halsey
    Slide Away by Miley Cyrus
    Flowers by Miley Cyrus
    Heart of Glass covered by Miley Cyrus
    On my own by Miley Cyrus
    Can’t Tame Her by Zara Larsson
    Wild Things by Alessia Cara
    Still Alive by Demi Lovato
    One Foot in Front of the Other by Griff
    Boat by Ed Sheeran
    I Am by Bebe Rexha

     

     

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