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General Discussion » Good relationship » September 6, 2023 8:22 am

Gloria
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I am friends with my ex gay boyfriend. He would never admit that he was gay. After I broke up with him, I reconnected with some one from my past and am happily married. I am not mad at the gay ex. I don't spend time with him because I am married but I am friendly with him. I remember the pain and the anger when I found out. I wish you all the best.

Support » Newbie - Lesbian in denial question » August 26, 2023 9:18 am

Gloria
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My ex boyfriend was gay. I confronted him two times and he denied it. I broke up with him and I am married now. I only wanted him to tell the truth. I understand how you feel.

General Discussion » Where are we all from anyhow? » July 17, 2023 8:55 am

Gloria
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I think that it is a good idea.

Support » Husband on Hook Up Sites » June 19, 2023 9:16 am

Gloria
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Buttlefly48, I am so sorry. I found out that my boyfriend was gay in June of 2020. It was a shock. He and I and one of our friends went to his vacation home. The AC was not working. The friend slept on the screened in porch. When I woke up, my boyfriend was in the bed with him on the porch. The friend was sound asleep and my boyfriend was on the other side of the bed awake. I also found condoms that we did not use. I confronted him 3 times but he would not admit it. I broke up with him. I wish you the best. I know how much you are hurting.

Support » What do I do if he won’t Admit it? » June 18, 2023 8:24 am

Gloria
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My gay ex boyfriend lied when confronted .

Support » What do I do if he won’t Admit it? » June 17, 2023 9:00 am

Gloria
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Jen8781 I am so very sorry. Please post here as much as you need to. We understand. I will hold a good thought for you.

Support » blindsided » June 6, 2023 8:15 am

Gloria
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Wow, that is a lot to deal with. My gay ex boyfriend never told me the truth when I confronted him. I know how shocked and hurt that you must be. I agree with you about not having sex with him and another man. I won't tell you to leave because I don't know your situation and I would never, ever, tell another member what to do. I was helped by a therpist. Post as much as you need to. We understand.

General Discussion » 6-weeks since D-Day & he wants ME to move on. » May 31, 2023 8:50 am

Gloria
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When I found out that my ex boyfriend was gay, I did not live with him but would spend four nights a week away from him. That helped. I was so angry. Please know that it does get better with time. I wish you the best.

General Discussion » Update-changed username » May 29, 2023 8:57 am

Gloria
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I understand your pain and confusion. I found out my ex boyfriend was gay two years ago. He would never, ever, admit it. I was so shocked that I could not sleep and would wake up at 4.00am. It was one of the worst things that I have ever experienced. I am glad that you have a therapist. Post here as much as you need to. I am holding a good thought for you.

Support » Im new, it hurts. I love her, but WTF? - Seeking connections... » May 27, 2023 8:25 am

Gloria
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EuroGuy23, please post as much as you need to. We have all been in your situation and we know yours shock and pain.

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