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1 | General Discussion » 6-weeks since D-Day & he wants ME to move on. » May 31, 2023 8:50 am |
- Gloria
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When I found out that my ex boyfriend was gay, I did not live with him but would spend four nights a week away from him. That helped. I was so angry. Please know that it does get better with time. I wish you the best.
| General Discussion » Update-changed username » May 29, 2023 8:57 am |
- Gloria
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I understand your pain and confusion. I found out my ex boyfriend was gay two years ago. He would never, ever, admit it. I was so shocked that I could not sleep and would wake up at 4.00am. It was one of the worst things that I have ever experienced. I am glad that you have a therapist. Post here as much as you need to. I am holding a good thought for you.
| Support » Im new, it hurts. I love her, but WTF? - Seeking connections... » May 27, 2023 8:25 am |
- Gloria
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EuroGuy23, please post as much as you need to. We have all been in your situation and we know yours shock and pain.
| General Discussion » New member-Peter » May 22, 2023 8:28 am |
- Gloria
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I am also sorry. I found out that my ex boyfriend was gay in June of 2020. I was so hurt and so shocked and so angry.I stayed with him one year because of Covid and because my little dog needed a safe place. I am not mad at him anymore. I don't want to be friends because I remarried in 2021. I wish you the best and will hold a good thought for you.
| Support » Adult daughter looking for support » May 18, 2023 9:18 am |
- Gloria
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I promise you that you will never hear a negative comment from me. I am glad that your daughter understands and still loves her dad. You do what is best for you. Our situations are all different. I will hold a good thought for you.
| General Discussion » Some positive thoughts » May 17, 2023 9:13 am |
- Gloria
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Gwendolyn,
I am also happy for you.
| General Discussion » admins censoring content » May 16, 2023 8:31 am |
- Gloria
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I can understand why you no longer won't to post.Not everyone is teated the same here. You can still help people through private messages and e mails. I wish you all the best.
| Support » Im new, it hurts. I love her, but WTF? - Seeking connections... » May 11, 2023 6:47 am |
- Gloria
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Welcome, thank you for sharing your story. I found out that my ex boyfriend was gay in June of 2020. I did not break up with him for a year because of Covid. I remember the shock and the pain that I felt. I am so sorry. At least she told you. If you have a therapist, that will help too. Take your time to decide what to do. Post here as much as you need to. I will hold a good thought for you.
| Is He/She Gay » She is questioning, what are our chances? » May 3, 2023 8:50 am |
- Gloria
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I was also able to forgive my gay ex boyfriend. Presenting himself as hetrosexual was wrong. I think of all of his very good qualities that he had and how he always would stop and help me when I needed anything. He was kind to my dog and cat and spent money on them. I am married now but I miss conversation with the gay ex. If you cannot forgive, pray for the desire to forgive. I wish you all of the happiness our world has to offer.
| General Discussion » Some positive thoughts » April 25, 2023 9:06 am |
- Gloria
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I also searched Grindr when I found out that my ex boyfriend was gay. He wasn't on there either. I did some other detective work suggested by a member who is no longer with us. I am holding a good thought for you.