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| General Discussion » Did/Does your GIDH express attraction to men going MTF? » February 23, 2020 8:05 pm |
- IgnoranceWasBliss
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Although my GIDEX never showed attraction in public his computer and phone showed me otherwise. Only gay porn on computer and craigslist for transvestite hookups and on phone texts only found confirmed hookups with transvestite hookers with confirmation on breast size, age, and functioning size of genitalia
Totally mind boggling to say the least and tortured my brain as to why he only hooked up with transvestites and not men with breasts....sorry about the detail and since three weeks of leaving him he has been dating a woman for the last two years.
| General Discussion » How to detect guys if they're gay or straight...?! » February 14, 2020 12:10 am |
- IgnoranceWasBliss
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In my experience especially looking back I have to say if they are extremely homophobic! I had never been around someone in my entire life as homophobic as my Gay Ex. Now I know this red flag! I also came across this youtube channel his name is MJ Harris and he is a gay man who loves to answer questions and give advice I happened to see a video he posted last week titled "is my husband/boyfriend gay"
His number 1 sign in that video is indeed extreme homophobia. He has some insightful videos I have looked through.
| Is He/She Gay » Pretty sure my bf of 4 years is not only gay, but a sex addict » September 12, 2019 5:25 pm |
- IgnoranceWasBliss
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He sounds like a total liar and no one wants to be with a liar because you can't trust him anymore.
| Support » The yearly painful reminder » March 3, 2019 12:05 pm |
- IgnoranceWasBliss
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For me when memories pop up you can delete post from your wall and also I went through my facebook wall and I untagged myself in every picture we were together then deleted them from my wall so they never pop up on memories anymore I was sick of it too
| Is He/She Gay » Found husband on Grindr » February 8, 2019 12:41 am |
- IgnoranceWasBliss
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Hello InDenial
Grindr is an app that you download onto your mobile phone. There are many gay hook up apps you can download to your phone. My GIDX used Craigslist to find his gay hookups.
| Support » Just found out my husband is gay » January 21, 2019 1:24 pm |
- IgnoranceWasBliss
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Leah
Yes I agree anger is what propelled me to get out so fast. I am grateful that anger hit me so hard and fast and empathy did not have a chance to creep in. Otherwise I would have procrastinated on working on something when there was nothing to work on or to be fixed. Just my opinion though. I never thought my bestfriend, could ever lie and cheat but apparently I never knew him at all. I kept repeating that to myself while I packed my stuff and left before he came home from work.
| General Discussion » Commonalities » December 28, 2018 2:12 pm |
- IgnoranceWasBliss
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Walkbymyself
Regarding public display of affection it was only a show it all depended if his friends and family were around. If no one was around there were no gestures of affection ( there were in the beginning) there were times when his mother visited he always grabbed my hand and would even constantly grab at my breasts in front of my mom and his mom which was weird and rude and I kept saying stop it in front of both his mom and my mom and he thought it was funny he only grabbed my breasts in front of them when they were watching not sneakily like when no one was watching he did it on purpose as a show especially in front of his mom now I know why.
| General Discussion » Commonalities » December 10, 2018 8:41 pm |
- IgnoranceWasBliss
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I agree with all of your points!
I will add
1) they watch their phone like a hawk
2) they repeatedly ask to perform anal sex (I never let him) never asked me to peg him but that is because I found out he is only a top from his Craigslist ads
3) they have friends that will never be introduced to you
4) they always never want sex and if it happens they usually go soft
Sex is very fast and mechanical and no french kissing
5) he called himself a fashion adonis haha and had more clothes and shoes than me
6) no holding hands or touching in public
These are off the top of my head too that were for my situation
| Support » Just Started the process. Confused. Please help » December 4, 2018 12:40 pm |
- IgnoranceWasBliss
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Hello Mimi
I am very sorry you find yourself here. Before I confronted my GID Ex I took photos of everything I found. Absolutely everything. All the text messages I took photos and was very good proof because his phone had a crack on the screen which you could see on my photos and that was great to prove it was his phone i took pics and video even of everything on his computer to prove it was gis computer. I took all the photos and videos before he had an inkling I found everything before he had a chance to delete it all. Then I confronted him. Best of luck and big ehugs!
| Support » Got tested for STD's today. » November 23, 2018 8:46 pm |
- IgnoranceWasBliss
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So relieving your test results were all negative. I don't understand why doctors leave out herpes testing. It is ranked very high on the list for gay men along with hpv. I was absolutely petrified to go in for my testing I went as soon as I found out my GIDEX was cheating on me with transvestite men. I will never forget the look on that doctors face.
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