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- Rob
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Re: Faith or lack of it
Hey Roo,
Yeah Kel told me also to get off my as*. I think my GX did it for me with her escalating abuse and affair..everyone has a breaking point.
I'd like to offer another perspective; you're exactly where you need to be, right now,based on the strength you have, the abuse and hurt you can process, and the financial situation you're in.
Start taking small positive steps even if just coming here to get perspective and support. Each day do a positive thing however small.
You feel stuck, for now.
You're hurting , for now.
Always remember it is a valley..it is not forever..we are not citizens of the (gay) valley. Our home is elsewhere and it is a journey to get there..
"For we walk by faith, not by sight .." 2Corinthians 5:7