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February 13, 2018 1:51 pm  #11


Re: Do Gay men keep nude pics of other men on PC if not gay?

Daryl...are you suggesting that my husband may NOT be gay bc he may just be a game player by saying he was just breaking chops?  This was when I discovered the pics on his pc, the nude pic of his penis on his cell phone and soliciting on Craig's List.  This statement of "I was just breaking their chops" was directly his response when I found the pics and the solicitation.  There were no viewable dates of the hook-ups just describing himself to others for the interest of a pick up.  I don't have any concrete proof that the events actually took place.  This is why I asked earlier for some type of tracking company to use in case theere were further communications.  The "issue" was never discussed again for a couple years now(even though I do occasionally check his pc bc of the trust issues now) and I also gave him an ultimatum of being thrown out IF I discovered anything like this again.  You have me wondering now bc I was trying to accept IF he truly is gay or just a "game player" which is not right either but somehow an easier blow to deal with...  Anyone have any ideas on the tracking, would be very much appreciated or on this post.  As like everyone here, I'm trying to unravel the web of lies still.

 

February 13, 2018 2:31 pm  #12


Re: Do Gay men keep nude pics of other men on PC if not gay?

Deceived&Lost,

I'll drop you an inbox note later today on how to investigate this thoroughly. Swamped right now in work.

Keep in mind that you are more than likely going to find out everything you already suspect. Straight men do not collect (or save) penis pics of any variety and do not communicate with gay men online in the manner you have outlined.

 

February 13, 2018 7:38 pm  #13


Re: Do Gay men keep nude pics of other men on PC if not gay?

Deceived&Lost wrote:

Daryl...are you suggesting that my husband may NOT be gay bc he may just be a game player by saying he was just breaking chops? 

Not at all. I was suggesting that after he was caught posting on CL, this was what he came up with as a (non-gay) reason to be there. I think it's about as truthful as a $3 bill.

 

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