It could all just be lies to throw you off-balance for the holidays.  Put NOTHING beneath them.

Hearing that someone has moved on is difficult - especially so soon after your split.  But try to switch your thinking to "I don't want that horse's ass anyway - why should I care who else wants him if I don't want him anyway???"

I know it's more than that.  You aren't viewing this as you not wanting him.  This is making you feel like he doesn't want YOU.  And now he's proving it by moving quickly on to someone else.  But we've all seen movies where this happens and it doesn't mean they're in love, or that they don't/never loved you.  It doesn't mean anything, really.  If he's looking to remain firmly in the closet, he'll need to quickly establish another woman in his life.  And what better way to prove that he's got a woman than by bringing her around to the people he's trying to delude?

It's all a big game to them.  Try to tell yourself that you're just glad not to be on his casino any longer.  He can play whomever he wants in his own place - the dice are fake, the house always wins.  Be glad you got out of that place before it spelled your ruin.  It's someone else's issue now.

Kel

He hasn't moved on RW, it's a game. You can move on and be happy though, either alone or with someone new, because you can love and you are honest. The best is yet to come.

Keep that proof, look at it when you doubt yourself, it’s real! I have screenshots and old messages with blatant lies that I use to ground myself from time to time.

He’s messed with your reality, takes some doing that does!