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September 8, 2018 1:46 pm  #11

Re: Controlling or Not?

Lynne wrote:

Sorry if I missed something, but is your H gay?

I missed that, too, but it may be in a different thread.

This situation is setting off all kinds of alarm bells for me, and I agree with Scrupulous.  I think he's afraid of being monitored in some way.

The important life lesson I learned from my own situation was this: there's no such thing as "irrational behavior" (except in cases of actual mental illness or drug interactions or something like that).  All behavior is rational.  There's only behavior that appears to us to be irrational, because we don't have all the facts.

So applying that rule to your husband's behavior, if the rational explanation for his behavior is not apparent from the facts you've cited ... then that means there are probably more facts that you haven't learned about yet.

Some guys do get crazy jealous when other guys notice their wives ... but I notice that both of the incidents you've told here involve issues of privacy and security.


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